How does control hinder?
Many people do control to maintain a sense of security.
Because they learned this: from parents, teachers, society.
But does it really help?
Experience shows that control limits possibilities.
Attention is often directed towards what is known, but life – ironically – moves towards the unknown (this is where new opportunities are found).
If you feel compelled to control, it will close the very doors that lead to greater opportunities and a happier life.
What works instead?
The permission.
This is not a passive acceptance, a kind of "let whatever happens happen," but a conscious choice.
Imagine someone is hysterical.
What if instead of controlling the situation, you asked yourself:
"What gift can you give me if I choose to allow myself in this situation?"
Allowing yourself not only improves relationships, but also frees up energy to create enjoyable and valuable things.
Practical step: Ask and listen
One of the keys to allowing is asking questions. For example:
- What am I controlling now?
- What if I let this go?
- What would become possible if I allowed myself the unknown?
This is not just a philosophical question.
The answers will open up new perspectives for you.
You can even change your cellular functioning with this.
This isn't magic - it's science.
Choose awareness, increase joy
The joy of life increases with allowing.
Happiness is not just a destination, but the journey itself.
"What if joy were the destination and the route in your life's GPS?"
When you let go of control and focus on joy, your life becomes richer and more fulfilling.
What else is possible?
If this topic has touched you, don't stop here.
Ask yourself the questions above and start experimenting with allowing.
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Releasing control is not a goal, but a Process.