Society plants a relationship script in your head from the moment you're born: marriage, children, a home together—all within a given timeframe. This pattern is so ingrained in us that many of us follow it without question, without stopping to ask:
👉 "Do I really want this?"
What is the real trap?
We believe that a relationship works if it fits a socially accepted template. But is that true? A relationship thrives on making room for real needs – not on fitting into an expectation.
Know these:
Know these:
• If your growth is more important to you than conformity, you can easily become frustrated in a relationship that is only about security.
• If you enter a relationship to meet expectations, you are not choosing, but letting others choose for you.
• If you don't choose yourself, someone else will be the writer of your life.
What can you do?
1. Ask yourself: "Is this my desire, or is it just a fixed pattern?"
2. Pay attention to the dynamics of your relationships: Are they building or limiting?
3. Embrace your own path: Not everyone needs to understand. You just need to know that you're okay with it.
Essence:
A relationship is not a pre-written story, but a free choice. Dare to choose.
Don't choose what works for others, but what works for you.